Types of Ego
❌ 1. Insecure Ego (Status-Seeking, Comparison-Driven)
"I went to the best college. I worked for the best company. I am from the best country."
- Behavioral Pattern: Bragging, Entitlement, Comparison
- Failures in the early life is good to fix this ego. If it’s really severe, go do things that are hard and that humble you—like reading or tackling tough problems—to wear down that ego.
❌ 2. Defensive Ego (Shame-Avoidant, Fear-Based)
"I don't accept any negative feedback. I will do anything to avoid being criticized."
- Behavioral Pattern: Denial, Hyper-sensitivity, Deflection
- This kind of ego is extremely dangerous and can limit a person’s growth. If you find yourself reacting this way, you need to pause, open up, and learn to accept your flaws. This kind of ego is rooted in the absolute refusal to face difficult truths.
✅ 3. Aspirational Ego (Growth-Oriented, Self-Expressive)
"I want to be the best version of myself, and I will do whatever it takes to build an outstanding product."
- Behavioral Pattern: Growth-oriented, Self-expressive
- This ego is the most positive and healthy ego. It is the ego that is most likely to lead to success. Do make sure your passion and energy are channeled toward doing the right things—like writing, creating, or building something meaningful.